Famous Girl.

I decided to write/express my thoughts about an issue that plays a full circle in relationships. The action and option of "exploring" or "testing" the waters to see if the grass is greener on the other side. Usually in the start of relationships, men cheat instead of cheating throughout aswell as cheating in the end. Why do you ask? I personally think that they want to hurry and get the idea of exploring out of they're system so they can try to become fully commited. It seems that men cheat more than women. Women are often left wondering what they did or didn’t do that led their significant other to stray and end up in bed with another. Don't get me wrong women cheat aswell, sometimes more than the male, but as we know "two wrongs don't make a right" and I believe that's why relationships are taking seriously these days anymore.

I was in fully commited relationship with a previous ex that was based on friendship, growth and loyalty. What went wrong? Well, number 1 we were in a long-distant relationship. I vowed to never ever be in one because the connection is so hard to grasp and hold on too. The relationship I had previously gotten into before him failed because of course, the guy cheated. So being open and putting trust back into something I went against, made me develop faith theough the process. The second time around, [x] It didn't work out, why? Because he stated that he couldn't take being apart so he had to end it. I respected that decision and slightly drifted away because I needed time to heal, he wanted to remain friends. We later became more than friends again, because our connection was still tight and while doing so, he decided to test the waters, pushed me away, I decided to stay away.

Sex is mainly a physical connection for a man while women link sex with a much more emotional connection. Men cheat because they do not take their marriage or relationship/commitment serious. I really think that relationships are over-rated in today's society. Another issue that bothers me is men cheating with girls they interact with over the internet. I can't believe it takes one easy slip up to give another girl the benefit of the doubt when you hardly know her at all. How ever many months and years you put into your relationship, it only takes one gulliable move to destroy it?

I have indeed learned how the game plan works with dealing with men and being in relationships. I just don't trust them as far as the eye can see, and because of that I have remained celibated for 4 1/2 years. (That's another topic that will be blogged about), but men, please realize that you guys are fooling no one and only fooling yourself in the end. Men blame Eve, but who do you really think is the one to blame?